Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Here we go again...


He's back!

I heard from my lawyer via email that he contacted her. He said he has a lawyer for the default hearing. He says he is missing things like his camera (what camera?), his insurance card (?), his manuals, etc. I have no idea what he is talking about. Being insane, its hard to give any credibility to him. Also he told her how he wants to sell his current car (wrecked as it is by him) and use the very old car we currently have sitting in the driveway. Like we give a rat's ass about what he drives. Also he told her he does not want us ebaying any of his stuff. Like what?

So its all the same old, same old. I think this time he'll stick with his lawyer - at least, I think his being on meds would give him that much. I think he is still as goofy as ever except, of course, he is not threatening to cut anyone's f'n head off.

My take on it is the dogs bark but the caravan moves on. I havent been unfair so having a lawyer is not going to make much difference. The two youngest are out of his reach pretty much. And I dont see where he could do much that would bother any of us.

My lawyer told me on Monday she would contact his lawyer that day and get back to me when she had any information. I'm glad she has to handle all of this. It makes it very easy for me and my kids. With an Order of Protection I actually really dont have to meet with him in person and thats the best thing for me.

The only thing I regret is this will slow things down. However, being mental cruelty as the cause, whenever we agree on the assets, we can have the divorce. So it will depend, I guess, on how those negotiations go. Since I am fair, going to trial to protect myself from his wrath is fine with me.


My virtue and my honesty are my shields in this.

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