According to vinelink.com which tracks offenders, he is in custody as of yesterday. And I rec'd email today saying he had a court date on 6/26. I left a msg with my states attorney advocate asking her to let me know what that court date is for and for the status on our most recent complaint. I also know he was out of state during this time but dont know if it helps them at all.
We are still waiting on the credit card fraud and another breaking of the order via the credit card.
I look at his name as it came up on the offender's site and its someone I never met. I can and I can't picture him. I feel no connection to him - I know the kids don't. Its like reading about someone you have a nodding aquaintance with.
Our lives are good. Its so much better than when he was here - even when he was here years and years ago before the manic hit.
He has been manic now for over a year. Probably something to do with his having taken those meds for depression when he never really needed them.
So here we are - enjoying our summer, preparing for our summer vacation trip. And there he is - not 10 miles away - sitting in his high watch cell wearing his bright orange jumper planning how he is going to change the world.
In a way, I was disappointed he was brought in. The girls' therapist has told me to prepare for bad news about him - that this has only one ending and that is his premature death either at his own hand - purposefully or accidentally, or someone else's who he tics off. It is not vindictive- I think that is pretty clear from my writing - but I really hope for his death. Its practical. He's never going to recover. He is a threat to me and my kids. And we keep having to play Order of Protection games with him. His life is, for all practical purposes, over - he has no reason to pull himself back together as it has never been about anyone but him.
So there you have it. Now I've said it. And I mean it and I'm not sorry for it.
Thursday, June 21, 2007
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