We've got updates

Yesterday was another pre-trial hearing. I read over the information available on-line. I didnt notice before that they had ordered a competency hearing for my FSO on the August 10th court date. Two doctors performed those and those reports came in last week according to the notes. He has another court date set for October 18th. Its pre-trial. I dont know what all of this pre-trial work is.

I did see tho that two of the felonies have not been filed due to trouble identifying the defendent. Unfortunate. And one felony has been sent to the Grand Jury.


Mother used to head a Grand Jury. I'll find out why they get sent there.

I heard the Criminal Conversion was for not paying a cabbie. And that one of the felonies was for taking someone's car and crashing it. No word on any of the other shenanigans.

The doctor is going to interview us and go through the records. He'll also interview Mr McGoOfy if he can. I wonder if we will be able to get his parental rights terminated or if this will just be a reasonable facsimile of terminating them.

We have a court date for Oct 16th to petition for the money. His next court date is Oct 18th. So he'll have to get a lawyer if he is going to be represented.


112 Days to Go!

We are getting busy again

Our Dr H

First, Dr H. His secretary wouldnt make an appt with me unless my FSO was available to be interviewed. And seeing he is incarcarated with no release date yet known, it seems highly unlikely that his social calendar will be open let alone him cooperate. My lawyer is going to contact Dr H directly to let him know the reason we are doing this. I gave her the go-ahead to have we four be interviewed and pay him his retainer and then we wait on whatever they want to do with him. So that is open right now and I'm not sure what is going to happen.

Second, my lawyer got us a date of Oct 16 to go in and ask for both the back child support and the car reimbursement. If they go through I'll end up with close to 41,000 bucks. Which I sorely need right now. She has to send him a copy of the order to his last known address. I gave her the prison. Too bad we know. It would have been better I think to send it to his sister. Then again, who knows?


Only 116 days to go before my divorce trial.

But the realities are ...

Interesting fact: When you receive mail from an inmate, the prison does not look at it but stamps it with a notice that this comes from an inmate and they are not responsible for the contents.

Reality #1: His lawyers dropped him because he had no contact with them and he owed them money that he wasnt paying. In fact, they are suing him for payment.
Reality #2: He has a pre-trial hearing on 9/27 and he has a public defender. Good luck there! LOL.
Reality #3: I looked up the apartment complex he wanted the info sent to in a Rate This Apartment Complex site. It says its a ghetto with frequent car and apartment breakins and crack dealers on the corners. Just what I figured.

Pets allowed at his new apartment

What I did: Immediately I took it to the police and filed a complaint. But I had to go twice because first, they only did it as a report and not a complaint. I think the cop didnt want to bother. I went back and signed it. At this time I realized that I had at least four other "reports" that should have been complaints. I asked the cop about them and he said it was too late and I had to go through the states attorney. I left my states attorney rep a message about it late Friday. I hope to hear from her early this week so I can get those going.

What I think: I think the first line is a threat and I brought that up in my msg to the states attorney. Second, I think he wants money for something to do with his legal problems - 7 felonies as of now in that state alone - and that if he could have got it from his brother he would have - otherwise why have me send the information to some unknown woman? Why not have it sent to his brother? Third, I think I'll get another and more explicitly threatening letter when he realizes I'm not going to respond.

What we are doing:
1. I also rec'd a letter from my state saying he owed almost $35,000 in back child support plus interest (I want that interest too!) I forwarded it to my lawyer who is going to go in at the end of the month (supposedly after his 21 days to respond are over) and use that letter to ask for that amount to be removed from his retirement accounts. Yippeee!!!! I can use the bucks.
2. I got in touch with the doctor assigned to find FSO's psychological status. They are going to call me today to make five (five!) appts with him.

My baby, he wrote me a letter...

Well, he wrote me a letter said he couldnt live without me no more...



Not exactly. Tho he DID write me a letter from his luxurious quarters in the county jail. It was written in all caps - except my name. And underlined words were underlined in the letter. Here it is:

Monday Sept 17,07

Eudoxia - I WILL NOT TAKE KINDLY TO THE FACT IF THIS LETTER IS A VOP. TRY DEFENDING THAT IN FRONT OF JUDGE JUDY.
WELL, SINCE MY DEAD BEAT LAWYERS WERE SMOOZED OVER BY YOUR LAWYER AND THEY THINK U ARE REASONABLE PEOPLE, I FIRED THEM AND SO I AM WRITING TO YOU AS MR FSO'S LAWYER I DO NOT HAVE ACCESS TO MS MY LAWYER'S NAME HERE EXCEPT TERRIBLY MISSPELLED'S OFFICE ADDR BEING IN JAIL
I WANT TO EXERCISE MY MOT STOCK OPTIONS ASAP AND DIVIDE THEM 50-50. WHEN THAT REAL ESTATE LAWYER WAS MY LAWYER HE HAD MENTIONED THAT, THAT WAS YOUR WISH TOO.
PLEASE DO THE NEEDFUL LEGALLY & MAIL ME A COPY OF THE COURT ORDER TO THE FOLLOWING ADR

FSO
C/O NANCY NO-BRAINS
SOME APARTMENT
CITY, OUT OF STATE

SIGNATURE HERE
FSO PRINTED HERE

Small Plan

"Talked" to my lawyer via email yesterday. We can no longer find him in default once he responds with any lawyer. So forget that.

She did say, tho, that the judge will give us pretty much anything we want on items we request at court hearings the FSO doesnt appear at. So, at the end of the month, she is going to handle the outstanding child support. I dont know how she is figuring it but she says its a lot of money. Maybe she is using the budget from when he was working? Not sure there but I can use anything she can get.

Update and Letter from a BIG bank

Court on Friday saw his lawyer receive permission to drop him, and my lawyer rec'd permission to pursue a 604(b) psychiatric examination with the doctor she wanted. So that is good for us. I'm wondering if any new prospective lawyer will be put off by the court-ordered psychiatric exam. If not by that, I'm sure they'll be pulled back by the fact he has a public defender due to claiming he has no money.

The sender gave permission for me to open a UPS letter I rec'd on Friday and do with it what I saw fit. I'm handing it over to my lawyer. Maybe the doc will want to see it.

I found his court date is a pre-trial hearing - this means he will not be out by the 21 days.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

September 6, 2007

RE: Checking Acct #*****
Dear Mr. FSO:

Please be advised that effective *** your accounts will be terminated. I have been attempting to reach you since **** ** 2007 regarding negative behavior conducted during your visit to *********.

I have not heard any response from you regarding this matter. There have been several communication notices sent to your home regarding this matter, and yet no response has been received. This letter serves as purpose to notify you of account closure. You will have 30 days to find alternative banking via another financial institution.

If you have any comments or concerns, contact me at XXX-XXX-XXXX.

Sincerely,
Ms. Manager

Court Tomorrow - but not for me

My lawyer goes to court without me tomorrow. We were supposed to go for a Pre-Trial hearing but since he is in jail and doesnt appear to have a lawyer at this point in time it wouldnt make any sense for me to show up.

I also have to be represented because his lawyer is withdrawing and my lawyer is starting up the process of permanently separating him from the kids. That means she is filing a paper tomorrow requesting a court-ordered psychiatric exam. She has requested a specific doctor but says it doesnt matter. The doctor will have legal access to all of FSO's medical records. I'd love to be a fly on that desk!

I gave her a list of the car-related expenses that he needs to reimburse me for. It totals to almost $7000. She cant file it, tho, until 21 days have passed and he has a chance to get another lawyer. I am hoping that if he doesnt have a lawyer on Day 21 that on Day 22 she will be in court finding him in default. We'll see. He has a court hearing on 9/27 which is 20 days after this hearing.