According to our court-appointed doctor, he is doing very badly psychologically and his doctor expects him to try suicide again once he is out. I can only say, he has no purpose in life, his life is an absolute shambles, he has no gumption or will power, so he might as well go ahead and do it. And this time do it right so I dont have to worry about the safety of my kids and myself.
I feel badly when I picture our early marriage but then I remind myself that was a LONG time ago and he stopped caring about me more than a decade earlier. I think of all the opportunities he had to make a REAL marriage and be a good dad and how he so carelessly abused the ties of family and marriage that make our culture work.
His lawyer is very hot to settle it all. My lawyer thinks he is afraid something even worse will happen. So we put together a proposal and my attorney and I went over it together last week. Nothing exciting. To even assets to 50:50 each, he has to transfer around 81,000 to me. And he owes me a little over 10,000 in interest on child support (tho my attorney thought it would be twice that). The house will be ALL mine. I look forward to that in particular. And he is to put money aside for our oldest's college and anything not used will be held for the younger two. And he owes me some money for things I payed for him.
We'll see where it goes from here. He is still in the hospital.
My lawyer thinks, if they dont take too long to respond, we can be done by mid-May.
Hooray!
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