Up and Down

The last few days have been up and down.


Friday afternoon I rec'd a phone call from the police saying my FSO (former significant other) was there filing a complaint that I had taken the kids' passports from his car (it looks like a homeless person lives there and I never searched it like I should have so didnt have them), that I had taken a 55 page letter he had written to our son (he gave it to him in person a week ago), and that I had his cell phone. He also told the cops that I had moved his car from the driveway to the garage. (He had hidden his car in the garage to fool us into thinking he wasnt here which meant we had to call the cops.)The cops also mentioned he was getting snotty.
and had to be put in his place verbally. I told the cop that since he had hidden the car, I had not moved it and that he was lying about everything else too. He said he knew but had to file the report.

Then Saturday morning, just after we left the house, the cops called again. This time it was because he could not find his drivers license. Again, the cop mentioned he was snotty and had to be put in his place. And he said that FSO wanted to stop by the house but the cops told him that was an absolute no. Good! I'm sick of my kids and myself being upset. Also, he told me he had told him not to come back anymore asking to go to the house. Hooray! To make myself look cooperative in case it ever came up, I told the cop I would go all the way back home and look. I did and found it where he said it was. It was very nice of the cop to come to the house to get it. It saved us the emotional problems of having to risk dealing with him.

As soon as the cop left, I headed out to the bank to empty the account except for 1000 bucks. He has not put any money from his paycheck since the second week of January. And that was only 1/4th of what it is supposed to be. I saw him heading in the opposite direction (away from town) on the way back from the bank. This was a great relief to me as I was afraid he would be in the area and we would risk being upset by him.

I have to finish my budget - but I also have a test coming up on Monday. If I dont do well I'll drop the class - this was just too much to recover from. I dont think I will do well.


But I need that budget to put a "brick" on his check.