Our divorce has gone into Slaughter Rule.
Anything he does now - even bringing in an attorney - will be movement but not action. He has already lost the game by virtue of the fact that he no longer can control anything that hurts us. So the game is over and we are just waiting for it to run out.
Take the 90,000 order...
Even if the 90,000 is stopped, 43,000 of it is child support and that cannot be reversed according to my lawyer. The judge agreed to the rest of it. The only problem I can see is that the judge will not agree that FSO should pay the penalty and interest I had to pay on the moneys I used to pay FSO's debts, and he might stop his child support/maintenance. This means I would end up with around 65,000 instead of 90,000. I didnt count on any of that and actually thought I would come out with 30,000 when we went in October.
I'm not entirely certain of course but I'm pretty sure he wont be able to see the girls until he has been in treatment for a while and is stable. Plus he would have to continue his treatment if he wanted to continue seeing them.
That leaves the division of our assets. Well, my lawyer is pretty certain we'll have his share of the house transferred to me in lieu of some child support. Any moneys he owes me will come from his half. So my educated guess is he'll have to pay me some $64,000 of his 401K plus my half of the stock options - used to be 60,000 but now my guess is they are worth around 20,000 if that. Its simple and straight forward and it will be fine to be done with it.
So he can file motions, etc. its all movement and no action. He entered the fray too late to be of much effect.
The dogs bark, but the caravan moves on!
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