Stupid!

Squander not time for that is the stuff life is made of.

He LOVES to talk about the state of our marriage. I have learned to avoid these conversations but was inadvertantly sucked up in one on Sunday. He wasted TWO hours of my time. He brought up the car again and how we wont move closer to his work and how I wouldnt move when he wanted to go to various and sundry jobs out-of-state and how he has "his reasons" for not talking to anyone at family parties. And how he thought I would learn to live with his parents peacefully when he ignored my demand they leave even though we had spent two years trying to learn to live with his parents peacefully and 16 years later we still cant live with them peacefully.

Amazing

Both that I got sucked up into it
and
that he feels this way.

And he thinks that acknowledging that he was entirely at fault in the ruin of our marriage means that we move on from here.