Uh, uh! Musn't!

My soon-to-be-former SIL

This morning opened with a phone call at 8 a.m. from his sister. Two phone calls, in fact- one to my cell and one to the home. She communicated that she would be picking up the car at 5 as planned (guess her youngest brother didnt manage to tell her that it was there since 5 pm last nite) and that he had some questions for me and he missed the girls (is this the same guy that couldnt be bothered to play a single game or watch a dull movie or listen their stories or spend a minute doing anything that wasnt directly for him?).

Since third party communications are prohibited by the order AND I do not like his sister even a little, I decided to ignore the call. I figured his brother would call her eventually and let her know it was there.

Two hours later, I get an SMS from his nephew. Again, they'll pick up the car, the previous SO has some questions and an fyi (Zounds!) and he "really misses the girls". (Does this guy know how to play the crowd or what?)

So I SMS'd his nephew back. I reminded him that no matter how deluded the former SO was about his relationship to the girls that the order of protection holds and third party message passing is prohibited by the order. I also told him that any violation of the order - no matter how seemingly small - would have us 911-ing or reporting to the police. The ex-SO knows this as does his sister and they had better not contact us anymore on his behalf or I will know what to do.