One thing that has bothered me but not terribly surprised me is his reaction to my cleaning
the room formerly known as "office".
Last weekend, before I really got into cleaning that space, he complained to me that he needed to work in "the office". That he needed that space and to get a desk in there and phone etc. I told him "fine" and that I was going to be cleaning it this week.
I spent at least 12 hours in there. (It was REALLY bad.) I had to drag up a folding table from the basement and also moved a chair up there. I set up his charger cord. He never said thanks. Didnt even acknowledge it. Kept right on working in the kitchen where everyone had to tiptoe around him.
I had put a lot of stuff from the library into the MILs addition. (She's gone until January.) I planned to sort it out and put it back in its rightful place. So when I got the library clean enough, I started cleaning out that stuff. This morning I sorted it out and moved it back in this afternoon. I think he was partially upset because he thought I was moving him back into that room so I could have my room. That was my plan. This may be why he is not acknowledging it and why he was so angry. He said to me "I suppose I have to move back into here now. I dont want to. It sounds silly but its bad luck."
Maybe I'll move one of the twin beds into the library and have him sleep there instead.
