Its my party and I'll ...

Well, tomorrow is my SIL's surprise bday party. I am looking forward to going. I am NOT looking forward to telling him about it. His work slowed down somewhat. Actually, I'm just going to handle it like when little kids first start asking where babies come from. I'm going to tell him as little as possible. First, I'll tell him there is a party and he is not expected to go. That I told my brother he cant make it due to work. Second, if he pushes to go, I'll tell him I'd prefer if he doesnt. If he asks why, I'll tell him because he doesnt join in or socialize and obviously doesnt enjoy my family parties so no reason for him to go.

Maybe, with some luck, he will have revenge by telling me I cant go to his family parties.


PLEASE, Lord!